Malaysiadating sex - Shes dating a older guy
Tell the (female preferably) doctor that she is probably/definitely (depending on what she admits to) sexually active, and your daughter can be in the exam without you.An exam and maybe hormonal birth control is probably what should happen next.As for The Guy, if he comes around treat him with respect, but I wouldn't be afraid to tell him you don't approve, and think he acted very unwisely in persuing her and that you hope she grows out of this phase. On the minus, even the smartest, most mature teenage girls in the world have been known to just equate age with authority and let themselves be pressured or abused by older boyfriends just because 'I really want him to like me, and he thinks I'm so mature.' The lying? And you might also ask her how she would feel about a male (or female, I guess) friend her own age dating a 12- or 13-year old (not the same difference in years, but IMHO you change just as much in those years as you do in your late teens and your twenties). You said your daughter is smart and has a good head on her shoulders and that the guy doesn't come off as a sleeze.
(Were going to talk more specifically later tonight) I know she lied about dating because we would not have approved, and that is true.
So there will definitely be consequences for that, but as for the rest, I am at a loss. But knowing her, I can understand what an older person would like about her. And Guy has called apologizing about lying and they both have said he wanted to tell us, but she didnt. I spent a lot of time today talking him out of finding the Guy and doing bodily harm to him.
I suspect she's not as level headed as you think she is.
I was very good at projecting mature, because in most ways I was, but there were huge, bizarre holes in that maturity. I mean, if they want to talk to you together, that's fine, but for him to call you without her screams emotional immaturity to me.
You want to make sure it's easy for her to brake up with him later.
Making this into too big of a deal will make that harder, because then breaking up will seem like a big dramatic thing that she doesn't want to go through.
I feel like I can only condone or condemn the relationship, and neither one really sounds like the right thing.
We made it to 17 without a bit of trouble, and now I just dont know how to handle it.
Then ask her if she thinks a 25 year old guy who dates a 17 year old is actually expressing maturity? You expect her to have relationships, that's normal.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating