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You can’t sit back and cross your fingers and hope he’ll eventually bring it up.

Yeah, it’s nice if the man initiates that stuff, it makes us feel pursued and all that good stuff.

I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?

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As it turns out, I met a third woman, who was so incredible that I immediately emailed the other two, broke things off, and took my profile down to commit. Let’s say Bachelor #2 turns out to be a great guy…who admits after two months that although he was excited about you, he’s on the rebound, not emotionally over his ex-girlfriend and is not fit to be your partner at this point in time. So please come back and let us know if I retroactively steered you in the right direction, okay? Everywhere you went you just magically kept finding great women who were into you and wanted to date you!

Naturally, it took the third woman about two weeks to feel comfortable committing to me, but she eventually did. Yes, you’re dating two men, but that doesn’t mean that these are the only two men on the planet. You had the leisure of committing to someone before they committed to you because you always just assumed that so many women wanted to be with you that you could always get what you wanted.

But, as we wait for a man to declare his love for us, we ending surrendering all of our power and control in the process.

The bottom line is that if you want something, you need to ask for it. It can be as simple as, “Hey, do you think we’re at a place where we should both take down our profiles or should we wait a bit longer?

Making a decision about a guy is no different than any other decision.

You weigh your pros and cons, you do your cost-benefit analysis, you use a little logic and a little emotion, and then make a largely arbitrary choice without knowing if you’re right.

The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.

They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.

Things have been moving along fine – we see each other about 1-2 times per week and spent NYE together.

I’m still casually dating others, but I really enjoy the time I spent with him the most (and hope that he’s starting to feel the same way).

(He doesn’t know when I’m clicking on his profile.) He put up new photos, new summary, everything.

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